<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" >

<channel><title><![CDATA[Dr. Paoni Books - News]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news]]></link><description><![CDATA[News]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2026 23:49:20 -0800</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[​What is Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, and how does it relate to Dylan’s Hero?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/what-is-cognitive-behavioral-therapy-and-how-does-it-relate-to-dylans-hero]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/what-is-cognitive-behavioral-therapy-and-how-does-it-relate-to-dylans-hero#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2023 14:23:03 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/what-is-cognitive-behavioral-therapy-and-how-does-it-relate-to-dylans-hero</guid><description><![CDATA[(excerpt) Vic's (the Victim) voice appeared and said: "You can't do it. It's too hard...you might as well stop trying." Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, is a one of the most common types of talk therapy, and is&nbsp;a well-established treatment that focuses on identifying and challenging automatic negative&nbsp;thinking patterns to reduce uncomfortable feelings. Negative thinking comes in many forms,&nbsp;such as all-or-none thinking, overgeneralization, negative assumptions, catastrophizin [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/uploads/1/2/5/8/125852731/editor/vic11-copy.jpg?1675694366" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:6px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption">(excerpt) Vic's (the Victim) voice appeared and said: "You can't do it. It's too hard...you might as well stop trying."</span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><strong>Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy</strong>, or <strong>CBT</strong>, is a one of the most common types of talk therapy, and is&nbsp;a well-established treatment that focuses on identifying and challenging automatic negative&nbsp;thinking patterns to reduce uncomfortable feelings. Negative thinking comes in many forms,&nbsp;such as all-or-none thinking, overgeneralization, negative assumptions, catastrophizing, and&nbsp;personalization, to name a few, which lead to emotional distress. Recognizing and replacing&nbsp;self-defeating thoughts is the goals of CBT in order to reduce feelings of anxiety or depression,&nbsp;and strategies may include writing out thoughts on a thought record or confronting situations&nbsp;to learn coping mechanisms. One specific form of CBT is Rational Emotive Therapy, which aims&nbsp;to identify the A &#61664; B &#61664; C sequence, A representing activating events or situations, B representing&nbsp;beliefs, and C representing consequences. The goal is to dispute beliefs (which are often faulty&nbsp;assumptions) in order to create more adaptive ways of thinking.&nbsp;<br /><br />"Dylan&rsquo;s Hero" is a story based on CBT approaches to recognizing and managing negative&nbsp;thinking. The facets of negative thinking highlighted in the book include Vic the Victim (which&nbsp;promotes depression), Pearl the Perfectionist (which promotes stress and burnout), Chris the&nbsp;Critic (which promotes low self-esteem), and Wally the Worrier (which promotes anxiety).&nbsp;Separating adaptive from maladaptive thinking patterns is helpful when recognizing how to&nbsp;shift thoughts, and the characters provide relatable ways for children to do so.</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/uploads/1/2/5/8/125852731/positive-math-homework_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><br /><em>(excerpt) The Hero voice told Dylan when Vic tells him he can't do things, "You can do it...a step at a time!"</em></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><font size="5" color="#3387a2"><strong>Meet Vic the Victim, Pearl the Perfectionist, Chris the Critic, Wally the Worrier and finally the HERO featured in Dylan's Hero: A Story of Overcoming Negative Thinking - book by Dr. Melissa Paoni.</strong>&#8203;</font></h2>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">Pearl the Perfectionist ...&nbsp;</h2>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/uploads/1/2/5/8/125852731/pearl-negative-thoughts_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">Pearl the Perfectionist says: "You should not make mistakes. You need to make that horse perfectly"<br /><br />Dylan believed Pearl, so he cried as he kept starting over. He tried to make ten horses, but none were good enough according to Pearl.</div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/uploads/1/2/5/8/125852731/dylans-hero-drawing-positive_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">The Hero told Dylan when Pearl tells him he needs to do things perfectly, "You are good enough!"</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">Learn More about Dylan's Hero!</h2>  <div class="paragraph">Who do you think the Hero voice is?!&nbsp;</div>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-highlight" href="https://www.amazon.com/Dylans-Hero-Overcoming-Negative-Thinking/dp/B0BQ58KJCR" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Buy on Amazon</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Book for Kids dealing with Self-Esteem Issues : Dylan's Hero, A Story of Overcoming Negative Thinking]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/book-for-kids-dealing-with-self-esteem-issues-dylans-hero-a-story-of-overcoming-negative-thinking]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/book-for-kids-dealing-with-self-esteem-issues-dylans-hero-a-story-of-overcoming-negative-thinking#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2023 16:06:38 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/book-for-kids-dealing-with-self-esteem-issues-dylans-hero-a-story-of-overcoming-negative-thinking</guid><description><![CDATA[ It's a growingly competitive world. Kids can become self critical during times of stress at school, sports or just family activities. Dr. Paoni needed a tool to help her patients recognize the different internal stresses and then have a basis to overcome these patterns. So she wrote a book!Dr. Paoni states,"Dylan&rsquo;s Hero:&nbsp;&nbsp;A Story of Overcoming Negative Thinking&nbsp;is a relatable story for kids who experience anxiety, discouragement and self-criticism.&nbsp;&nbsp;This story inc [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:242px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/uploads/1/2/5/8/125852731/published/hadit.jpg?1673540170" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">It's a growingly competitive world. Kids can become self critical during times of stress at school, sports or just family activities. Dr. Paoni needed a tool to help her patients recognize the different internal stresses and then have a basis to overcome these patterns. So she wrote a book!<br />Dr. Paoni states,"<br /><u style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Dylan&rsquo;s Hero</u><u style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">:&nbsp;&nbsp;A Story of Overcoming Negative Thinking</u><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;is a relatable story for kids who experience anxiety, discouragement and self-criticism.&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">This story incorporates a cognitive-behavioral approach that explores the worrier, critic, perfectionist and victim internal dialogue.&nbsp; A note for parents is included to&nbsp;encourage more positive&nbsp;self-talk with their children.&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Mental health professionals may find this to be a useful therapy tool to help kids identify negative self-talk and promote adaptive counter-statements."<br />&#8203;<br />With colorful illustrations by artist Christy Freeman, the story of Dylan and his internal nay-sayers, shines light on a positive approach to self-esteem, self-criticism, worrying and self-doubt.<br /><br /><em>Age range: 7-11 year old (message is wonderful for all ages)</em><br />To purchase, visit<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dylans-Hero-Overcoming-Negative-Thinking/dp/B0BQ58KJCR" target="_blank"> AMAZON here</a> or <a href="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/contact.html">contact us</a> directly.<br /><br /><u><strong>Bulk discounts for teachers and therapists!&nbsp;</strong></u></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Welcome Dylan]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/welcome-dylan]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/welcome-dylan#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2022 15:25:41 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/welcome-dylan</guid><description><![CDATA[ Dr. Paoni is passionate about helping children! As a child therapist, she is always looking for new tools to use to help her clients cope with every day stresses. This new book, "Dylan's Hero" is a relatable story in which Dylan is struggling with negative self thoughts such as self-esteem, criticism, doubt and worries. Through vivid images and direct story telling, Dylan's example of re-training his thoughts to more positive notes is a tool we can all use.Buy "Dylan's Hero" now on Amazon! Publ [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/uploads/1/2/5/8/125852731/fb-event-now_orig.png" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">Dr. Paoni is passionate about helping children! As a child therapist, she is always looking for new tools to use to help her clients cope with every day stresses. This new book, "Dylan's Hero" is a relatable story in which Dylan is struggling with negative self thoughts such as self-esteem, criticism, doubt and worries. Through vivid images and direct story telling, Dylan's example of re-training his thoughts to more positive notes is a tool we can all use.<br /><br />Buy "Dylan's Hero" now on Amazon! Published December 2022 by Dig-It-All Designs.<br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div style="text-align:left;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-highlight" href="https://a.co/d/ebk8zol" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Buy on Amazon</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wearing Masks]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/wearing-masks]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/wearing-masks#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2020 14:24:37 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/wearing-masks</guid><description><![CDATA[The Centers for Disease Control has relied on scientific data to affirm thatwearing face masks reduce the spread of COVID-19. &ldquo;We are not defenselessagainst COVID-19,&rdquo; said CDC Director Dr. Robert Redfield. &ldquo;Cloth face coveringsare one of the most powerful weapons we have to slow and stop the spread ofthe virus &ndash; particularly when used universally within a community setting. AllAmericans have a responsibility to protect themselves, their families, and theircommunities.&rd [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">The Centers for Disease Control has relied on scientific data to affirm that<br />wearing face masks reduce the spread of COVID-19. &ldquo;We are not defenseless<br />against COVID-19,&rdquo; said CDC Director Dr. Robert Redfield. &ldquo;Cloth face coverings<br />are one of the most powerful weapons we have to slow and stop the spread of<br />the virus &ndash; particularly when used universally within a community setting. All<br />Americans have a responsibility to protect themselves, their families, and their<br />communities.&rdquo; The CDC further states that the spread of COVID-19 can be<br />reduced when masks are used along with other preventative measures, including<br />social distancing, frequent handwashing, and cleaning and disinfecting frequently<br />touched surfaces.<br />Getting children to wear masks to school may be a challenge, as masks can be<br />uncomfortable, glasses may fog, and fidgeters may struggle with this new<br />sensory experience. Children may benefit from acknowledgment of the<br />discomfort, using their interests and preferences when obtaining masks, and<br />having adults around them modeling wearing masks. Taking selfies with masks,<br />coloring mask pictures, and providing basic explanation of how masks protect<br />against germs may be helpful. Practicing wearing masks for initially short, but<br />increasing lengths of time will assist with this adjustment.<br /></div>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-highlight" href="https://www.healthychildren.org/English/health-issues/conditions/COVID-19/Pages/Cloth-Face-Coverings-for-Children-During-COVID-19.aspx" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">HealthyChildren.org Article</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/uploads/1/2/5/8/125852731/smmask11_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Book Signing at Reverie Apparel]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/book-signing-at-reverie-apparel]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/book-signing-at-reverie-apparel#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2020 20:57:20 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/book-signing-at-reverie-apparel</guid><description><![CDATA[Join Us on   Saturday, July 25: 10am - 12pm  At Reverie Apparel - 407 E Adams - Downtown SpringfieldWe will have BOTH books available for purchase! Sarah Stays Home &amp; Sarah Wears a Mask. Both are thoughtful and relevant due to the stress of the ongoing pandemic. Written for 3rd-5th grade kiddos. Dr. Paoni is insightful with different techniques to stay positive and deal with anxiety and stress.Proceeds from profits are being donated to Doctors Without Borders.  We are excited to Launch Sarah [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">Join Us on <br /></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">Saturday, July 25: 10am - 12pm<br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph">At <a href="https://www.reverieapparel.shop/" target="_blank">Reverie Apparel</a> - 407 E Adams - Downtown Springfield<br />We will have BOTH books available for purchase! Sarah Stays Home &amp; Sarah Wears a Mask. Both are thoughtful and relevant due to the stress of the ongoing pandemic. Written for 3rd-5th grade kiddos. Dr. Paoni is insightful with different techniques to stay positive and deal with anxiety and stress.<br />Proceeds from profits are being donated to <a href="https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/" target="_blank">Doctors Without Borders.</a><br /></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">We are excited to Launch Sarah Wears a Mask at this event! <br /></h2>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.drpaonibooks.com/uploads/1/2/5/8/125852731/sarahmaskebookcover_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sarah's Pandemic Stories]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/sarahs-pandemic-stories]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/sarahs-pandemic-stories#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2020 16:42:47 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.drpaonibooks.com/news/sarahs-pandemic-stories</guid><description><![CDATA[2020 brings us Sarah's Pandemic Stories, a short set of books for children (ages 7-12) which look at how kids cope with virus pandemic life changes. Topics include, staying positive while in quarantine, coping with social distancing, overcoming emotional distress, new life changes such as wearing a mask and returning to a new normal. The book is illustrated by Dr. Paoni's sister, Christy Freeman Stark (www.christystudios.com). The color palette matches the mood of the situation to help the child [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">2020 brings us Sarah's Pandemic Stories, a short set of books for children (ages 7-12) which look at how kids cope with virus pandemic life changes. Topics include, staying positive while in quarantine, coping with social distancing, overcoming emotional distress, new life changes such as wearing a mask and returning to a new normal. <br />The book is illustrated by Dr. Paoni's sister, Christy Freeman Stark (www.christystudios.com). The color palette matches the mood of the situation to help the children connect more with the mood.<br />These are Dr. Paoni's first published childrens books - available on Amazon Paperback and Kindle or directly from the Publisher (local to Springfield, IL).<br /><br />Coming soon: Allie is an Ally &amp; Dylan's Hero (both in production)<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>